My Loved One Is Starting TMS: How Can I Support Them?
When someone you care about is starting Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) for depression, you may be wondering how you can best support them. You don’t need to have all the answers. Often, the most helpful support is simply understanding what treatment involves, being patient with the process, and being there along the way.
Learn What TMS Treatment Involves
TMS is a non-invasive treatment that uses magnetic stimulation to target areas of the brain involved in mood regulation. It does not require anesthesia or sedation, and patients can typically return to their normal activities after treatment.
Understanding what your loved one can expect may make it easier to support them.
Remember That Progress Can Take Time
TMS is a treatment course, not a single session. Some patients may notice changes earlier than others, and improvement can happen gradually.
Try not to put pressure on your loved one to feel different after a certain number of treatments. Instead, allow their clinical team to monitor symptoms and progress throughout treatment.
Offer Practical Support
Small gestures can make a meaningful difference. You might help with transportation, meals, childcare, household responsibilities, or simply checking in after appointments.
The goal isn’t to take over. It’s to make the treatment process feel a little more manageable.
Listen Without Trying to Fix Everything
Depression can be difficult to talk about. Give your loved one space to share how they’re feeling without immediately trying to solve the problem.
Sometimes, simply saying, “I’m here if you want to talk,” can be more supportive than offering advice.
Celebrate the Commitment to Treatment
Starting a new depression treatment can require time, energy, and commitment. Acknowledge the effort your loved one is making by showing up for treatment and taking another step toward feeling better.
Supporting Someone Through TMS
You don’t need to understand every clinical detail to be supportive. Learn about the process, be patient with their progress, offer practical help when needed, and continue showing up.
If you or someone you love is considering TMS for depression, the team at SEPA TMS Center in Randolph, Massachusetts can help answer your questions and determine whether TMS may be an appropriate treatment option.